its perfectly normal 4 u 2 b dry in that area aft avin a baby, its caused by ur hormones from the preg and is designed 2 try stop u avin sex 4 while so u dnt get preg2 allow body 2 rest. use ky jelly or durex ave got sum out now, there gr8 and fun theres heat, feel and tingle. they do diff stuff, the heat wen u brow on it makes it hot (not burn or owt like that quite plesent), feel just hightens sensation and tingle is minty and does wat it says, makes u tingle in a gud way. u can add em2 ur 4play and try em out on ech ova in diff areas not just that. all can b eated (licked off bits and bobs lol) and all r sfe 2 use wiv condoms. hope this helps